The Swipe Right Project
Master Online Dating
Learn the phycology and science behind dating.
Discover who you are, what you desire, and how to manifest your perfect partner.
BONUS: Tips on creating the perfect profile to attract the right people into your life.
Dating as an activity doesn't have a particularly positive reputation--for good reason. Dull conversation, awkward silences, unreturned texts or phone calls, the absence of desirable matches--it's a routine that often leaves people feeling exhausted and powerless. Sometimes it feels as though we should expect to boomerang between excitement and suffering, optimism and fear.
It isn't helpful that our culture today leads too many of us to believe that we're not enough. We're made to feel like we should pretend to be people we're not; hide our age, and drum up our wealth and success in ways that embolden the ego and weaken the soul. By this logic, we're supposed to hide ourselves in order to find love. Sounds strange, doesn't it? And yet, we all do it! Somewhere along the way we've internalized the false idea that dating should be painful, and that it's common to suffer for love. As a result, we end up dating with a scarcity mindset, repeatedly seeing the wrong people, and behaving in ways that do not align with our souls. We wear masks out of fear of rejection, and fear of being alone. However, dating doesn't need to be this way. Even with all of its challenges, dating can be a joyful and expansive experience that teaches us about ourselves and others at every step on the path.
There is another way
The Swipe Right Project is about becoming curious---about who you are, what really motivates you, and what your soul most deeply desires. It is a practice, both spiritual and practical, that asks you to dig deep and be vulnerable with yourself and others, but through this work, suffering becomes optional. When we date consciously, we enter into a much different, and kinder, agreement. We agree that it's okay to be alone. We agree that we're enough. We agree that suffering is optional. When we move from this place of radical acceptance, we stop hiding. Dating is no longer the seeking of partnership for the sake of not being alone--it becomes a joyful adventure of deeply knowing and loving ourselves and others. Learning The Swipe Right way of dating is not a game; it is a practice. It is a commitment to serving the good, to self-love, and to acting with mindfulness.
With this course you'll learn:
Techniques for uncovering your motivations in your dating life.
How to connect with your innermost self.
Practical methods for consciously navigating first impressions, red flags, first-date locations and topics of conversation.
The healing importance of practicing vulnerability.
How to create the perfect tailored date
Strategies for conscious communication.
Practice on how you show up on your dates.
Conscious approaches to letting go.
How to move forward with dating a receptive spirit
How to create an online profile (pictures and bio) to manifest the perfect person
which app to use according to what you are looking for in a relationship.
Mein Shiang (the Ancient art of face reading) know what your partners attributes are just from a picture.
Techniques for moving from matching, to texting, to dating
Setting up boundaries to keep your autonomy
Who should take this course:
Straight, bi, or queer women who are single and seeking a conscious relationship
Women who are ready to date again after taking time following a separation
People currently dating, who wish to deepen and improve their relationships
People who have struggled with dating in the past, and want to heal
People who are ready to step into online dating for the first time.
This powerful course will move you through the meaning and practices of conscious dating--inviting you to deeply engage your own experiences--and into the practical realities of dating on the ground, and how to date consciously in the midst of navigating these realities. It is possible for dating to be a life-affirming experience, in which even rejection becomes growth, and the pursuit of love is fulfilling in and of itself. Through storytelling, journaling, and meditation, you will emerge equipped to date without fear, with a full, open heart and a clear mind. Let's get you started today!
How does it work?
Starting Nov 2, we will meet for 12 weeks (total of 12 lessons) live and online. Each lesson will be recorded and you will receive a copy in your email to keep for as long as you need to refer back to if needed. Also, receive unlimited text and email support for the 2 months while taking the course and a BONUS 1 month after taking the course
Sign up today. Seats are limited.
About the Teacher
In 2015, LeLa Becker wrote an article for Elephant Journal that went viral. As karma would have it, a few years later, she found myself back in the dating scene. She used this opportunity to write dating advise for a local Seattle blog. Because she is a perpetual student of human behavior and a personal freedom coach. She pulled from her experiences and utilized her knowledge and created The Swipe Right Project.
"The Swipe Right Project is designed to help women navigate the world of Online Dating. I help women design the perfect online dating profile, give templates to move from the match, to texting, to actually meeting in person. I encourage confidence on a subconscious level to help women discover who they are at their core. Who is their perfect person. How to identify hard "no's" and recognized red flags. How to let go when they realize the relationship is not working out and how to break up if needed. How to have autonomy while in a committed relationship and how to set boundaries. "
BONUS: You will receive an intensive study on the art of Mein Shiung. The study of face reading and body language.
The Swipe Right Project is designed to give women confidence in themselves and in the world of dating. Also, the highest frequency is love. When we learn to vibrate on the frequency on LOVE, everything and anything is possible.
What is The Swipe Right Project?
The Swipe Right Project is a 3 part deep dive process
Pillar 1: Who are you?
We will be discovering the answers that lie deep in our subconscious mind about who we really are? how do you identify? what are your desires? what are your truths? what are your strengths and weaknesses to bring to a relationship?
Pillar 2: Who is your Partner?
Discover what are your "hard no's" for a relationship. Learn to identify "red flags". Uncover why relationships in the past have failed and how to learn from them.
Pillar 3: Coming together
Discover how to stand strong in your autonomy while combining your life with your partner. Addressing co-dependency. Learning to live in the moment. Controlling thoughts of expecting. Learning to compromise on the relationship but not your feelings. Boundaries and learning to say NO.
As a committed swipe right graduate you will receive personalized help with your online dating profile pictures and bio. Creating a profile that attracts what you want.
Learn which sites to place your attention to according to your relationship needs.
Templates on how to move from texting to meeting in person
How to be your authentic self on a date
How to set up the perfect date
Learn to communicate effectively on your date
Also, study of human behavior for joining LeLa Becker in a specialized course of Mien Shiang (face reading). Know what your partner is thinking by reading their body language and facial expressions.
Who is The Swipe Right Project for?
The Swipe Right Project is designed for women who identify as lesbian or straight.
Women who are ready to get serious about finding their perfect person.
Women who would like to improve their current relationship.
Women who seem to be repeating the same relationship over and over again.
Women who are ready to make a change and get serious about finding their ONE.